Co-Parenting doesn’t have to be a negative experience

Co-parenting can be challenging, but it’s even tougher when the child in question is a baby. Very young children require extra care and attention when their parents split up, with this group most badly affected by the consequences of separation and divorce. Being exposed to conflicts between their parents can leave deep scars on their minds, which can affect their future relationships. So, rather than being dominated by emotions towards your ex, it’s vital that you work together to co-parent successfully.

Try not to be negative

Despite your relationship with your ex not working out, you must all you can to get over it and move on. This includes taking care of your children together. So, the first thing you need to do if you’re to co-parent successfully is to quit those negative feelings. Put your guilt or regret to one side and make your child your number one priority.

Don’t bad-mouth your ex

Bad-mouthing your ex whilst you’re children are around is a bad idea. Your child is too young to understand the real reasons behind your split, so it’s unlikely to achieve anything other than making them feel upset. When a child hears one of their parents bad-mouthing the other, their self-esteem suffers. Their confidence and sense of security will gradually be eroded over time. Rather than placing them in the middle of a battle with your ex, try to be friendly to them when your child is around.

Avoid keeping a child away from a primary caregiver

Don’t keep your child away from your ex if they’re their primary caregiver. For very young children, this can result in anxiety and depression. They’re likely to feel a great loss, and because they’re too young to express themselves, they probably don’t deal with this loss very effectively. For babies and children, being close to both parents matters. Quality time spent with both you and your ex is crucial for the wellbeing of your child. 

Consider your childs feeding schedule

Co-parenting babies after divorce can be particularly difficult if the mother is breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is vital for the health of the infant, and it also plays a key role in bonding. Therefore, it’s important to consider a child’s feeding schedule when creating a co-parenting schedule. One of the strategies parents use when a child is breastfeeding is the mother pumping the breast milk. This can then be refrigerated or frozen and used later with a bottle.

Separating from your partner can be extremely difficult, but it’s important to do all you can to help your baby or infant adjust to the changing circumstances. Strive to build a healthy relationship with your ex for the sake of your child. Work together and turn yourselves into the ultimate co-parenting team. 

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